I remember years ago I was speaking to a friend about my dilemma of travelling overseas or taking one of two great jobs in Sydney.
She laughed at me and said “ohhh no you have so many great options! … just choose one and if it doesn’t work out, choose the other one … and if that doesn’t work out, another thing will probably come up.”
I thought it was a bit flippant in my state of distress, but she was absolutely right.
Do you recall Lewis Carroll’s exchange between Alice and the Cheshire Cat:
“Would you tell me, please which way I ought to go from here?” said Alice.
“That depends a good deal on where you want to get to” said the Cat.
“I don’t much care where—“said Alice.
“Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,” said the Cat.
Curiouser and Curiouser …be SO true!
My point is … this year may have been full of big decisions for a lot of us, but (although the news will only tell you the horror stories) a lot of people have been choosing, adapting and pivoting until they found their new way of being. Some are even happier and thriving.
Not all COVID19 stories are sad.
This year is not over yet.
How can you raise the tone of your life, by choosing something new?
What would make you happiest?
How would you prefer to be living?
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